Marriage is a beautiful journey centered around a long-term commitment. But when making such a promise, for better or for worse, there are times when you may need guidance. Sometimes, this guidance may have to come from a professional.
If you or your partner want to consider family therapy, you should contact Dr. Invia A. Betjoseph for a free consultation today.
So, what exactly is marriage counseling? Well, it is a form of psychotherapy that helps couples who are struggling to identify (and resolve) conflict. It doesn't stop there—it also helps to improve the communication between the two and strengthen their relationship, giving them the tools they need to succeed.
When going into couples therapy, the process usually looks something like this:
If you or your partner want to consider family therapy, you should contact Dr. Invia A. Betjoseph for a free consultation today.
When you first approach marriage counseling, think of a few questions to ask so you can find the right therapist.
Asking these questions will help you assess whether the therapist you have the initial consultation with is the right fit for your needs.
Do not hesitate to ask these questions and others that are important to you.
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When it comes to marriage counseling, the reasons a couple may need it vary depending on their situation. Every relationship has bumps along the way, but specific issues can put the marriage into a rut.
Here are 9 reasons that you might need to consider speaking with a marriage counselor:
Communication is essential to making any relationship work, whether married or not. Many couples struggle to communicate healthily or productively about certain situations.
You may find it hard to talk without it turning into an argument and eventually stop communicating altogether due to hurt feelings. If this sounds familiar, this may be your problem.
Do you feel the unwavering urge to peek at your partner's phone when they walk away for a moment or overthink and become paranoid that they are lying to you? You may be having trust issues within the marriage.
This can happen if there is a persistent lack of trust or if infidelity has occurred.
You and your partner have too many differences in spending habits. Having different priorities regarding what you should spend money on isn’t necessarily bad, but it becomes a problem when it starts to cause conflict in the marriage.
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Having a healthy sexual relationship is a strong suit for having a happy marriage. All individuals have needs, and if you find that your sexual relationship has changed or become non-existent, this can be an issue.
Major life changes, such as moving, can negatively affect couples. For example, adapting to having a new baby, a job loss, or having to relocate to an unknown area can impact the couple.
One or both partners feel a lack of emotional connection or support, resulting in feelings of being like roommates rather than lovers.
You need help with the same arguments repeatedly without finding a resolution. These minor issues are also escalating into what could have been small disagreements, turning them into significant conflicts.
After some time, you realize your long-term goals/core values don’t align. For example, one partner wants to get married and have children, while the other doesn’t. These types of disagreements can affect the foundation of your relationship.
Let’s say that you are having family issues. Your family may disapprove of your relationship, which overwhelms you and renders you powerless.
You could be dealing with work stress and health problems that are putting your bond with your partner to the test.
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You should know that seeking counseling services is not a sign of failure in a marriage. If anything, it shows courage and is something you want to salvage. It is a proactive step towards strengthening your relationship with your partner, addressing issues before they become a deal breaker.
Even couples who (from an outside perspective) have a very healthy marriage can benefit from the tools and insight that a professional counselor can provide. So, no matter what, you are not alone.
Are you searching for the best marriage counseling service? Look no further than Counseling San Jose. They strive for a professional environment, providing only the best for their clients. But that isn’t all – here are some reasons they consider the best:
Whether the struggle is depression, sexual addiction, anxiety, self-image, shame, and guilt, as well as couples who are experiencing emotional stress related to relationship conflict and extra-marital affairs, Dr. Invia and his staff at San Jose Counseling are there to help you achieve your therapeutic goals.
You are not ‘beyond help’. Marriage counseling is also not just a last resort for couples who are on the verge of being separated.
It is a powerful tool for any couple looking to strengthen their bond. As we’ve explored in this article, there are many reasons why couples seek professional help.
Remember that seeking counseling is a sign of strength instead of weakness. It shows commitment to your relationship and a willingness to grow together into something more and find that ‘spark’ again.
If you or your partner want to consider family therapy, you should contact Dr. Invia A. Betjoseph for a free consultation today.
Dr. Invia A. Betjoseph is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, MFC 44618.
As a Psychotherapist, and a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, he provides Psychotherapy, or Counseling and Sex Addiction Treatment for Sexual Addiction and Pornography or Porn Addiction.
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