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Education

  • M.A. in Marriage and Family Therapy, Western Seminary
  • B.A. in Psychology and Counseling, William Jessup University
  • CSAT-C (Certified Sex Addiction Therapist Candidate)

Organizations

  • California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (CAMFT)
  • International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP)

Tom Olsen

Tom is an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist who received his Master’s Degree in Marital and Family Therapy from Western Seminary, Santa Clara, CA and is a Candidate for Sex Addiction Certification (CSAT). 

Tom has the pleasure of working with many people from all walks of life. With clinical aptitude and integrity, he can journey alongside your most profound struggle, pain, or failure, with genuine care and compassion. Tom is a warm and thoughtful therapist who has the natural ability to create a calm and accepting environment where individuals feel safe and valued. He can relate to families who have loved ones struggling with sex and pornography addiction, drug and alcohol addiction, a severe mental illness, or emotional difficulties such as grief, trauma, depression, anxiety, and low self-esteem. He also has a genuine understanding of families with special needs children and individuals who have been or are currently affected by cancer. 

Tom’s desire is for his clients to thrive in all aspects of their lives: in their jobs, communities, and marriages. He works with couples, families, individuals, groups, children, and teens.

Tom is committed to lifelong learning and has a passion for music, exploration of the outdoors, and an excellent book to read.

Education

  • M.A. in Marital and Family Therapy from Western Seminary

Tom Olsen

Tom Olsen is a registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist (AMF 93920) who received his Master’s Degree in Marital and Family Therapy from Western Seminary, Santa Clara, CA and is a CSAT candidate. 

Tom has had the pleasure of working with many people from all walks of life. With clinical aptitude and integrity, he’s able to journey alongside your deepest struggle, pain or failure, with genuine care and compassion. Tom is a warm and thoughtful therapist, who has the natural ability to create a calm and accepting environment where individuals feel safe and valued. He can relate to families who have loved ones struggling with sex and pornography addiction, drug and alcohol addiction, a serious mental illness, or emotional difficulties such as, grief, trauma, depression, anxiety and low self-esteem. 

He also has a sincere understanding for families with special needs children and individuals who have been or are currently affected by cancer. Tom’s desire is for his clients to thrive in all aspects of their lives: in their jobs, communities, and marriages. He works with couples, families, individuals, children and teens.

Tom is committed to lifelong learning and enjoys an occasional motorcycle ride along the coast. Tom is married and has two sons. He has a passion for music, travel, and the outdoors.

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Education

  • PsyD in Marriage and Family Therapy; Ryokan College
  • M.A. in Clinical Psychology; Azusa Pacific University
  • B.A. in Psychology & minor in Religious Studies; U.C. Davis

Organization

  • California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (CAMFT)
  • The International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT)
  • International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP)

Dr. Invia A. Betjoseph

Psychotherapist, Trauma Specialist, and Founder of San Jose Counseling, Inc.

Dr. Invia A. Betjoseph is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (MFC 44618) and the Founder and Director of San Jose Counseling, Inc., a professional corporation dedicated to helping individuals and couples navigate complex emotional and relational challenges. Holding a Doctor of Psychology (PsyD) in Marriage and Family Therapy, Dr. Betjoseph brings a depth of clinical expertise and a compassionate approach to his work with clients.

As a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) and Certified Partner Trauma Therapist (CPTT), Dr. Betjoseph specializes in treating individuals struggling with compulsive sexual behaviors, addiction, relational distress and betrayal trauma. He previously served as Clinical Director of the LifeStar Program at the Addiction Recovery Center (ARC) and continues to lead specialized therapy groups for men seeking recovery from addiction and compulsions of a sexual nature. His practice provides comprehensive support for those facing depression, anxiety, self-image concerns, shame, and relational challenges, including couples navigating the aftermath of betrayal and emotional disconnection.

Dr. Betjoseph has extensive experience with “EVERY MAN’S BATTLE”, a faith-based monthly workshop under NEW LIFE MINISTRIES that helps men break free from sexual addiction. His dedication to crisis intervention also includes work as a suicide and crisis counselor with Santa Clara County Mental Health.

Committed to trauma-informed care, Dr. Betjoseph is trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and certified in Affect-Centered Therapy, both of which play a crucial role in trauma recovery for his clients. Additionally, he is trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for couples counseling, helping partners rebuild trust and intimacy.

Dr. Betjoseph is an active member of the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (CAMFT), The International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT), and the International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP). Through his work, he remains dedicated to guiding individuals and couples toward healing, self-discovery, and relational wholeness.

Frederick Sargiz

Education

  • M.S. in Clinical Psychology; Vanguard University
  • B.A. in Psychology; Vanguard University

Organization

  • California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (CAMFT)

Frederick Sargiz

Associate Marriage and Family Therapist, AMFT 134918
Supervised by Dr. Invia Betjoseph, LMFT 44618

Frederick Sargiz is a graduate student of clinical psychology at Vanguard University of Southern California and an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist. He has a deep passion for working with both families and individuals, helping them unlock their full potential and become the best version of themselves. Frederick strongly believes that family is the foundation of society and that fostering a supportive, nurturing environment is essential for each member to thrive.

With a commitment to mindful awareness, creativity, personal growth, and personal responsibility, Frederick emphasizes the importance of a safe and understanding therapeutic space. Through attentive listening and respectful conversations, he strives to build trust with his clients, guiding them toward self-discovery, healing, and resilience. He helps individuals overcome negative self-talk and develop a greater sense of empowerment in their lives.

Outside of his professional work, Frederick enjoys outdoor activities, volleyball, swimming, and jazz music, with Bossa Nova being his favorite rhythm. He also has an appreciation for philosophically inclined movies that challenge the mind and inspire deep reflection. In addition to English, he speaks Assyrian and Farsi, allowing him to connect with a diverse range of clients and cultural backgrounds.

Tom Olsen

Education

  • M.A. in Marital and Family Therapy; Western Seminary
  • B.S. in Psychology and Counseling; William Jessup University

Organization

  • California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (CAMFT)
  • International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP)

Tom Olson

Psychotherapist, CSAT, CMAT

Tom Olsen is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (MFC 136823), a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), and a Certified Multiple Addiction Therapist (CMAT) through the International Institute for Trauma & Addiction Professionals (IITAP). With a deep commitment to helping individuals and couples navigate the complexities of addiction, relational struggles, and emotional well-being, Tom creates a structured yet compassionate environment where clients can heal and grow.

Holding a Master of Arts in Marital and Family Therapy from Western Seminary in Santa Clara, CA, Tom brings over a decade of experience working with individuals, couples, and groups facing challenges related to addiction, anxiety, and depression. He is particularly passionate about guiding those struggling with compulsive sexual behaviors, betrayal trauma, and relational disconnection toward recovery and renewal.

Tom facilitates men's groups, intensive recovery programs, and structured therapy sessions that emphasize personal accountability, emotional insight, and long-term healing. He provides a supportive and structured environment where participants can build a strong foundation for recovery and personal integrity.

Believing that lasting change comes from both deep self-exploration and actionable steps, Tom works collaboratively with his clients to develop tailored strategies that foster resilience, self-awareness, and relational health. His approach is client-centered and goal-oriented, ensuring that each individual feels supported while working toward meaningful transformation.

Whether in individual therapy, couples counseling, or group intensives, Tom provides a safe and structured space for clients to reclaim their lives and build fulfilling relationships with authenticity and purpose.

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    Lori Admin

    Invia is truly a gift to the profession and his wisdom, kindness ....Read more

    Mike Zukowski
    Mike Zukowski

    nvia provides a caring and healthy environment to begin the....Read more

    Michelle Stewart
    Michelle Stewart
  • It takes years and practice to become a talented and gifted therapist...Read more

    Samuel Fraser

    I have know Invia for a few years. One of the very first things that ....Read more

    Michael Brito

    Invia is a compassionate and knowledgeable therapist. His years of....Read more

    Robert Navarra
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Dr. Invia A. Betjoseph

Dr. Invia A. Betjoseph is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, MFC 44618. 

As a psychotherapist, a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), and a Certified Partner Trauma Therapist (CPTT), he provides Psychotherapy, Counseling, and Sex Addiction Treatment for Sexual Addiction and Pornography or Porn Addiction.

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